Let me be blunt…

“Let me be blunt”: This usually means that someone is about to tell you something you’re not going to like -or- agree with.  What they think is the absolute truth is only THEIR version of the facts. THEIR version of reality.

“Let me be blunt” is a phrase leading to a statement, leading to an emotion, leading to a feeling that you may not like or want to deal with.

I DON’T want anyone to be blunt to me.  Sugar coat it, don’t tell me the absolute truth. Please don’t make me feel bad. It’s already been a tough day.

Of course, if it’s your MOM, you have no choice. (Yes mom, I know you only want the best for me…) But when complete strangers write anonymous comments???? WTF

Problem is, there are so many places online to be blunt these days, that the temptation is just too great.

I know, I should have thicker skin (which I write about in another post), but, I can’t help myself.

A thousand people can love and worship what I do, but if just one negative comment shows up, it feels like a thousand paper cuts.

Anything that can make me roll up into a fetal position is not welcome in my world.

What can I say?

I know… “Let me blunt”: “Keep it to yourself.”

Braggin’ about your life

Why can’t I rave about “things” when “things” are going well.

Why is it socially incorrect to brag?
• I lost 10 lbs.  – let me tell you how I did it.
• My daughter got an award at school – I’m so proud
• I made a big sale at work – here’s how I crushed all the customers’ concerns
• My boss made a dumb mistake – If it were me…
• Do you know how much money I have in the bank? – here’s my bank stmt
• I had the greatest sex of my life last night – Let me show you my “new move”
• I had the best BM yesterday.  OK,.. I get it.  I’ll stop here.

 

Ken

DIETING, THE “D” WORD

The “D” word is the most discussed subject in my office. Both women and men have long, drawn-out discussions about “D”

The “D” word means thought, guilt, planning, self-loathing, anxiety, uncomfortable conversations, doing without,  exercise and hunger…

As the boss, I feel their pain, but why can’t they talk more about “W”? (WORK)

Anyway, I’ve been gaining and losing the same 10 lbs myself for the past 10 years.

My goal is to get back to my ORIGINAL weight:

9lbs,10 oz….